Emily's May Inspiration "There Goes The Hood"

It was more than a restaurant, it was a symbol. And in the past decade, the last man standing in a sea of homogeny brought on by outsiders visiting the East Village on the weekends; dabbling in the hip, artistic, and edgy. Fact is MAMA'S was the neighborhood. At ten dollars a plate with a choice of meat and three sides, MAMA's was the spot you went for down home comfort. Nestled on 3rd St btw A & B, I walked past this soul food spot daily back in the nineties, sometimes stopping in just for a side of mash potatoes when the city got rough. They had the best veggies too, and if you didn't want meat you could get an extra side with their mac and cheese rivaling no other.

 

I encourage my yoga students to embrace change, to accept the only constant in our lives is just that. But as my old street in Alphabet City morphs into more and more sameness - that chain store, homogenized look that plagues our country - I have to cry out, 'Why this hood!?' Why the spot where artists flocked to so they could be different and accepted? With the fortune tellers, druggies, and performance artists singing their tunes, graffiti walls and dive bars that embrace all kinds... Why must the demographic who desires sameness, who feels more comfortable in an OLIVE GARDEN than an authentic Italian dive invade the one place on the planet where we screwed the Man?

Those who infest the East Village on the weekends are in no way supporting the community and those who inhabit it. They leave and go back to their commutes and cubicles, and tell stories about how they had a 'crazy' weekend in the village. We lived there, many old-schoolers still do. It's our home, and place's like MAMA'S, or the old KING'S PHARMACY replaced by a DUANE READE were our pride, our joy and choice to remain original, authentic to ourselves. Most moved to the East Village against their society's wishes. To a far away land where parentals did not understand paying a thousand dollars a month for a shoebox apartment on Ave C, but we did and sacrificed to be there. The natives know the secret to Alphabet City is its character, its funkiness, and constant groove we so adore. With the closing of MAMA'S, I dare say...there goes the hood.

PEACE,

Emily

Archived Inspirations

on Holidays
Scared To Death,


I love Halloween. I love the blood dripping from fake butcher knifes. The ugly masks that make you squeeze your eyes shut. Spooky sounds in haunted houses. Spider webs, skulls, creepy jack-o-lanterns. The genre of horror is my favorite. Any of the Jason movies, the twisted House of a Thousand Corpses, Steven King's Pet Cemetery-- scared to death; I scream loud and love them.



In real life I'm not as brave. I don't like to be caught off guard. I panic when things feel unsafe or unfamiliar, can actually feel my body tense at most change of plans. And would never be the babysitter who decides to check out the noise in the basement. …Don't we all play most things safe? Most times take less risk, stick with familiar routes, jobs we hate.



Most of us are scared of something. Even when that something is a blessing we avoid, make excuses. But beyond that fear of flying or working is your fear of death or failure. Ugly and uncomfortable, fear makes it impossible to enjoy the present-- to experience freedom, happiness. The scary demon kills when we forget to breathe. When out of fear we deny the emotion space, and the clarity to see.



…It was only the wind slamming the basement door. Right...?



'…One, two, Freddy's coming for you.

Three, four, better lock your door.

Five, six, grab your crucifix.

Seven, eight, gonna stay up late.

Nine, ten, never sleep again…'



Boo,

Emily